In
an Arabian tribal village, an old man died and left behind 17 camels for his
three sons. Shortly after the official mourning period was over, the sons opened
his last will.
The
will was a rather strange one. It stated that the eldest son, being the
first-born and the old man’s favorite, should get half of 17 camels while the
middle son should be given one-third, and the youngest of the three would get one-ninth
of the 17 camels.
Now
here was a real problem that the three brothers did not know how to solve. 17
is not a number that could be divided into a precise half, nor could it be
divided by 3 or by 9. Each of the sons wanted this interpreted their own way –
naturally to each one’s own advantage. Angry and heated exchanges between the
three of them continued for several days, without any solution in sight. So
tense was the situation that the tribe’s elders intervened and suggested to
them that they should visit the oldest and wisest member of the tribe, who
would surely be able to come up with a solution for their peculiar problem.
And
so, off they went to see this wise elder. The wise man listened to them
patiently about their father’s legacy of 17 camels, and appeared to be lost in
thought for a while afterwards. Shortly thereafter, as if having reached a
conclusion in his own mind, the old man got up and went to the his own cattle
yard, and returned after a few minutes, leading one of his own camels, which he
added to the 17 camels of the three brothers. So now there were 18 camels in
all – an even number.
He
then picked up the dead man’s will and read it out again.
Half
of 18 being 9, he gave the eldest son 9 camels. The middle son was to get
one-third, and one-third of 18 being 6, the middle son was allowed to take 6
camels then came the turn of the youngest son, who was to get one-ninth of 18,
which works out to 2, so the old man gave him two camels.
Now
figure this out: 9+6+2 = 17, which was the number that the three brothers had
been quibbling about initially, before the wise man added the 18th camel, and
even after having divided the camels, there was still one camel left – the 18th
one, which the wise old man claimed for himself.
Each
of the brothers left happy with the brilliant solution offered by the wise man
– a solution that neither one of them had been able to come up with. Between
the three of them, they left with the same total number of camels that they had
come with, and yet, they left happy with the outcome, with no ill-will, with
each one of them feeling that it had been a fair solution to the problem.
So
what changed? In real terms perhaps nothing? But yet, a peaceful solution had
been arrived at. A solution that was acceptable to each one of them. Because
when they came, it was with the belief that a commonly acceptable solution to
be found by consulting the wise old man. Believing in the possibility of an
amicable solution is the first step for any negotiation to be successful, and
the 18th camel became the common factor that neutralized the problem.
As
is the case with many negotiations, believing that a common ground for a
win-win situation can be found is critically important to finding amicable
solutions. This helps to shape our attitude, and as is the case with anything
else in life, a positive attitude can help to solve any kind of problem.
However, a negative frame of mind distorts our vision and we are unable to see
the possibility of a solution, which is most often the reason why negotiations
break down. So next time we are stuck with any tricky negotiation, we first
need to find that 18th camel.
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